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UGH UGH UGH

My downstairs neighbors were drunk yesterday and asked if the three guy friends I had over on the porch last night were gay. 

I thought it was a weird question but I said no, only one of them is. And then they’re both like “nah they’re definitely all gay” and yadda yadda and at one point one of them goes “yeah when i saw him i was like oh yeah this guy is definitely gay ugh don’t come near me” 

And I’m SO annoyed by this that I don’t even want to speak to them anymore. Ever. Yes, they were trashed, but there’s a problem when those are the things you say and joke about when you’re trashed. Maybe I might be overreacting BUT STILL 

1: Talk about the first time you watched your favorite movie.
2: Talk about your first kiss.
3: Talk about the person you've had the most intense romantic feelings for.
4: Talk about the thing you regret most so far.
5: Talk about the best birthday you've had.
6: Talk about the worst birthday you've had.
7: Talk about your biggest insecurity.
8: Talk about the thing you are most proud of.
9: Talk about little things on your body that you like the most.
10: Talk about the biggest fight you've ever had.
11: Talk about the best dream you've ever had.
12: Talk about the worst dream you've ever had.
13: Talk about the first time you had sex/how you imagine your first time.
14: Talk about a vacation.
15: Talk about the time you were most content in life.
16: Talk about the best party you've ever been to.
17: Talk about someone you want to be friends with.
18: Talk about something that happened in elementary school.
19: Talk about something that happened in middle school.
20: Talk about something that happened in high school.
21: Talk about a time you had to turn someone down.
22: Talk about your worst fear.
23: Talk about a time someone turned you down.
24: Talk about something someone told you that meant a lot.
25: Talk about an ex-best friend.
26: Talk about things you do when you're sick.
27: Talk about your favorite part of someone else's body.
28: Talk about your fetishes.
29: Talk about what turns you on.
30: Talk about what turns you off.
31: Talk about what you think death is like.
32: Talk about a place you remember from your childhood.
33: Talk about what you do when you are sad.
34: Talk about the worst physical pain you've endured.
35: Talk about things you wish you could stop doing.
36: Talk about your guilty pleasures.
37: Talk about someone you thought you were in love with.
38: Talk about songs that remind you of certain people.
39: Talk about things you wish you'd known earlier.
40: Talk about the end of something in your life.

about to book a ticket to VT for a wedding

and it’s 300 bucks.

I love my friends and I’m excited for the wedding but still.. Oomph. 

‘Why Didn't You Just Leave?' Six Domestic Violence Survivors Explain Why It's Never That Simple

Everyone needs to read this. 
I hate it when people ask “why didn’t the girl just leave? she’s an idiot for staying.”

No relationship is ever that simple, stop blaming those that are abused for staying in the relationship. 

6 days ago - 1

Dude I’d been talking to stopped responding to me as much after I turned him down on going over to his house at 2am last night (albeit I didn’t realize that he was inviting me over so i didn’t do it in the most artful manner, to be honest so it probs came off as harsh)  but HEY WHATEVER. I don’t want to see a guy who gets THAT pissed off about my not coming for a 2am bootycall.